Comments for Aeroplane Jane http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com Just another WordPress.com weblog Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:23:45 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Be Embraced by RobD http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/2009/09/17/be-embraced/#comment-43 RobD Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:23:45 +0000 http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/?p=110#comment-43 Generally I do not post on blogs, but I would like to say that this post really forced me to do so, Excellent post! <a HREF="http://forums.portlandmercury.com/member.php?u=80459" rel="nofollow"> :) </A> Generally I do not post on blogs, but I would like to say that this post really forced me to do so, Excellent post! :)

]]> Comment on Vows Renewed by leafless http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/2008/03/30/vows-renewed/#comment-29 leafless Sun, 30 Mar 2008 18:50:35 +0000 http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/?p=24#comment-29 It's always satisfying to read words like these. My congratulations to you and your Tarzan. I hope your relationship will become even stronger. It’s always satisfying to read words like these. My congratulations to you and your Tarzan. I hope your relationship will become even stronger.

]]> Comment on The Secret by Da Mario http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/2008/02/27/the-secret/#comment-25 Da Mario Mon, 10 Mar 2008 10:13:07 +0000 http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/2008/02/27/the-secret/#comment-25 I have always been of the opinion that the day I decide NOT to express my opinion, is the day I'll be ready to give up on a relationship. Because then I just don't care anymore. Just reading the last 4 posts, I have to say that your relationship seems unhealthy and destructive, pardon me if I'm overstepping here, but you did place it in public domain! ;) Anyhow, all of the best! I have always been of the opinion that the day I decide NOT to express my opinion, is the day I’ll be ready to give up on a relationship. Because then I just don’t care anymore.
Just reading the last 4 posts, I have to say that your relationship seems unhealthy and destructive, pardon me if I’m overstepping here, but you did place it in public domain! ;)

Anyhow, all of the best!

]]> Comment on To Stay or……. NOT? by anothertry http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/2008/02/25/to-stay-or-not/#comment-17 anothertry Mon, 25 Feb 2008 08:05:30 +0000 http://aeroplanejane.wordpress.com/2008/02/25/to-stay-or-not/#comment-17 Oh no. This sounds like a really tough situation. It's so bad when a man is unhappy at work. Sometimes they don't realise that no matter where they go, they will take their troubles with them if they don't change a pattern dramatically. I have gone through this with my hubby before. He would take out his anger and frustration on me because he had no power in his workplace, and he wasn't so sure that he wanted to continue in his current career because he felt inadequate and lacked the passion he felt he needed. I had to stand my ground, and talk to him A LOT. He has finally realised that I am not his awful boss. I am happy to live in a cardboard box as long as we're both happy,healthy and productive (ie therefore taking the pressure off him to 'provide'). I also told him that if he doesn't sort out what he wants to do in life workwise, that his baggage will follow him around no matter where he goes and that if he isolates me (by constantly moving) from my own support network as well as his, then we will run into all sorts of trouble. It took a long time but we've finally reached that happy place. Just letting you know that there is hope. Just keep communicating and don't give up on finding solutions. Good luck :) Oh no. This sounds like a really tough situation.
It’s so bad when a man is unhappy at work. Sometimes they don’t realise that no matter where they go, they will take their troubles with them if they don’t change a pattern dramatically.
I have gone through this with my hubby before. He would take out his anger and frustration on me because he had no power in his workplace, and he wasn’t so sure that he wanted to continue in his current career because he felt inadequate and lacked the passion he felt he needed.
I had to stand my ground, and talk to him A LOT.
He has finally realised that I am not his awful boss. I am happy to live in a cardboard box as long as we’re both happy,healthy and productive (ie therefore taking the pressure off him to ‘provide’). I also told him that if he doesn’t sort out what he wants to do in life workwise, that his baggage will follow him around no matter where he goes and that if he isolates me (by constantly moving) from my own support network as well as his, then we will run into all sorts of trouble.
It took a long time but we’ve finally reached that happy place.
Just letting you know that there is hope.
Just keep communicating and don’t give up on finding solutions.
Good luck
:)

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